My husband and I met through a video dating club, "Great Expectations" in Dallas, TX in 1989. We had both relocated to Dallas about the same time. For over a year we lived less than 1/2 a mile apart, shopped at the same grocery store, used the same dry cleaners, ate at the same Chinese restaurant, but never once met. I had joined the club as kind of a joke, but he joined because he travelled so much for work, he never had a chance to meet anyone. By coincidence, I ended up going out with one of his sales guys and had a so-so time. About our date, he told my husband, "She wasn't for me, …